Verses 7 - 8
"...the marriage of the Lamb is come..."
In verse 7, we see the same great multitude of the previous verse proclaiming, "...let us be glad and rejoice,.. for the marriage of the Lamb is come..." These are saints of God and witnesses. By their own words, have excluded themselves as being a part of the body described, in this chapter, as the wife of the Lamb.
The accepted understanding, which seems to be in agreement with the ancient Jewish marriage rite, is that these are friends of the groom (i.e. Old Testament Saints, and the martyred, or deceased saints of the tribulation period). They are no less beloved by the groom, but have a different relationship with him than His bride. The firstfruits of God and the Lamb (the 144,000 of chapters 7 and 14) are also among those not counted as a part of the bride, for they are caught up to heaven after the rapture of the Church.
Scripture plainly identifies the bride, or wife of the Lamb (Jesus), as the Church {Eph. 5:23-25}. She is also identified in {Rev 21:9-10} as new Jerusalem, but this seems to point more to the inhabitants of the city, rather than the physical city itself; although, here the two seem to be indistinguishable.
To better understand how the marriage of the Lamb came to be, let's look briefly at the basic process through which marraige was accomplished in ancient Israel; and how Jesus and the Church are currently engaged in the fulfillment of it.
The process of Jewish marriage was a very structured and legalistic endeavor. Marriages were generally arranged for the bride and groom by their fathers. When a young Jewish man wanted to marry a Jewish maiden, a contract (Katubah) was struck between the prospective groom and the family of the bride whereby obligations of the parties were set forth. A price, "the bride's price", had to be agreed to next. Then a ceremonial cup of wine was drank to seal the agreement. When this was completed, the couple were, in effect, married. Only the consumation remained to be completed. For the contract of a bethrothed couple to be voided normally required the execution of a bill of divorce (Matt. 1:18-20).
Once the betrothal was initiated, the bridegroom left the home of the bride, and most often went to his father's house, to began construction of a wedding chamber. The normal betrothal period was set at about 12 months. However, there may be certain circumstances which might cause a delay in the groom's return {Matt. 25:5}.
The bridegroom labored earnestly to build the chamber, however, it was the father who determined when the wedding chamber was suitable to be occupied by the espoused couple {Matt. 24:36}.
The son, in his zeal to go and secure her, may overlook important details necessary to complete the marriage process. The chamber had to be properly stocked with essential items, for the couple were to remain inside for a period of seven days.
The wisdom and experience of the father therefore, would insure that every issue was properly addressed before the OK was given. We may reckon the Lord's delay in returning to the great care given to these details, or it may simply be the mercy of God towards the sinner of the world {II Pet. 3:8-9} which accounts for the delay.
Once the OK was given by the father, the groom then, in the company of his family and friends, returned to the brides home. This was often done in the middle of the night, so as to surprise her.
Herein is the time of the catching up of the church distinguished from the Revelation of Jesus Christ. The coming for the bride is as a, "thief in the night". No man knows the hour he will come; only the Father, who inspects ther bridal chamber, knows the time {Matt. 24:36}.
Matt. 24:44 states,
"Therefore be ye also ready: for in such an hour as ye think not the Son of man cometh."
It's a surprise to the church; whereas, the revelation of Jesus, at the end of the tribulation period is anticipated. Though that day may also come as a 'thief in the night" to the unbelieving world; it will not be unexpected by the faithful {I Thess. 5:4}, who can count the number of days the Antichrist is given to reign (1,260), before Jesus comes to do battle with him.
As the wedding party approached the bride's home, a shout was given {Matt. 25:6} ; {I Thess. 4:16} to announce the arrival of the bridegroom. At His coming, He will awake those who are sleeping (the dead in Christ, I Thess. 4:15). In chapter 19, there is no indication that a shout is given, or a trumpet sounded to announce the revelation of Jesus Christ, as stated in I Thess. 4:16.
Once the groom has "seized" his bride and taken her from her home: they along with the wedding party returned to the Father's house; where they received the blessing of the groom's father, before the espoused couple entered the wedding chamber {Dan. 7:13-14}.
After entering the chamber, the door was shut. The groomsman (best man) then waited near the door for word from the bridegroom that the marriage had been consumated. Once the door was slightly opened and word was given, the groomsman turned and informed the wedding guest, which responded with great joy. A celebration, which was to last for the balance of the seven days, then began.
The bride and groom however, remained in the chamber; during the celebration. It is to be a time when all the secrets of each party are brought to light. At the end of the seven day period, the door will be opened and the husband and wife shall come out of the chamber, clad in new apparel.
They, along with the wedding party, then return to the wife's former home to celebrate the marriage supper. This act was undoubtedly intended to allow the wife's friends and family (the surviving tribulation saints) to take part in the celebration {Matt. 24:31 ; Rev 19:9,17} .
This is a perfect picture of Jesus and the Church, and the prophetic scenario that shall be played out as the church is caught up to heaven, just prior to the start of the tribulation period.
The betrothal of Jesus and the Church began with the contract, stating the obligations of the parties, and setting the "bride's price". The price demanded for her hand was the forfeiture of His life. Once the price had been agreed to, a cup of wine was drank to seal the contract {Matt. 26:27-28}.
This cup, referred to as the "cup of acceptance", in the betrothal, is identical to the third cup of the Passover service, which is also called, "the cup of redemption". This is the one which Jesus shared with His diciples, as recorded in the gospel accounts. It's the cup of the new covenant (the sealing of the contract between the Lamb and His bride). Jesus went on to state that He would not drink of the fruit of the vine again until the day He drinks it with the faithful in the Kingdom of God {Matt. 24:28-29}. On that day, at His revelation, He will again drink the wine, at the marriage supper of the Lamb (Rev. 19:17-18).
By this, He made known His intentions to redeem His bride, whose price He was about to go forth and pay at Calvary's cross. It is now celebrated in the Church as the cup of holy communion.
After paying the bride's price at Calvary, Jesus rose from the dead, ascended up to His Father's house, and begin construction of the wedding chamber {John 14:2-3}.
With regard to partaking of the Communion cup, Jesus told us that we are to drink of it in remembrance of Him {Luke 22:19-20}. This is to make us mindful, not only of the great price which He has paid, but also that the groom, who is gone away, is coming back to receive His bride to Himself. We are not to be forgetful of that fact. We are bought with a price {I Cor. 6:20}, and He will most assuredly return to redeem that which He has purchased.
The common belief among Christians is, that when Jesus ascended to heaven, He went to make ready the mansions which He spoke of in John 14. In actuality, "...a place..." (singular), which He went to prepare for the church is the wedding chamber, not the mansions (plural) which are in heaven. When that chamber is finished and approved by the Father, then He will return to receive His bride and take her there.
The mansions, spoken of in John 14, are undoubtedly the place where the saints in heaven currently reside while awaiting the chamber to be finished. Once that occurs, the souls of these shall be assembled and return with Him to the earth {I Thess. 4:14}, where their bodies shall be resurrected and reunited with their spirits. I Cor. 15:44, tells us that we have both natural and spiritual bodies. These spirits, who are reunited with their resurrected bodies, and the mortal saints of the earth, who are translated into glorified bodies, shall then be caught up together, and return to the wedding chamber in heaven.
The eternal home of all the saints, will not be the mansions which currently exist in heaven; but rather new Jerusalem, which shall be established upon the new Earth of the future.